Supporting Emotional Development at Home: Simple Ways to Help Little Ones Name Big Feelings
1. Use Visuals to Talk About Feelings
Children, especially preschoolers, benefit from seeing what emotions look like.
Try using simple visuals like our Pinky the Crab Emotion Cards
(Happy Pinky, Sad Pinky, Mad Pinky, Scared Pinky). Post them
on the fridge, near your child’s bed, or in a calm corner.
Try this at home:
Ask in the morning, “How is your heart feeling today?” and let your child point to a card.
2. Make Emotions Part of Daily Art
Art is a natural way for children to express what they can’t say in words. Use coloring pages like Pinky’s Big Feelings Coloring Page, or let your child draw their own faces showing different emotions.
Prompt ideas:
“Draw a time when you felt brave.”“Color Pinky when she’s feeling happy!”
3. Read Books That Name Feelings
Books are wonderful conversation starters. When reading My Big Suitcase of Emotions, pause and ask:
“What is Pinky feeling here?”
“Have you ever felt like that?”
You’ll be amazed at the little stories your child shares when given the chance.
4. Model the Words You Want Them to Use
Your child watches everything you do—including how you respond when you’re upset or overwhelmed. When you name your own feelings, you’re teaching emotional vocabulary in real-time.
Model this:
“I feel frustrated because I spilled the milk. I’m going to take a deep breath.”
5. Make Space for ALL Feelings—Even the Big Ones
Let your child know it’s okay to feel angry, scared, tired, or excited. All feelings are welcome—even when behaviors need guidance. Use calm-down routines like:
Hug a stuffed animal
Count to five with finger breathing
Squeeze a pillow or play dough
Repeat the message:
“It’s okay to feel all the feelings.”
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